Cliche as it may sound but everything does happen for a reason. Sometimes we want things and we work hard to get them but we end up not having them. It's okay to be disappointed and sad, what's not okay is to lose hope and give up. Never think you are failure just because you didn't get the things you believe you deserve. Everything that happens today, whether you win or lose, will lead you to something amazing. You are great, no one stands a chance.
I haven't been here for soooo long and I decided to go here because of that contest. Oh well, that post is very apropos for me. :>
And we just have to remember, We can't have all that we desire